One week down, many more to go

After this week, I have a new understanding and appreciation for my patients. Two things I have learned over the course of this week. 1. Too much information is overwhelming, and 2. Each time they (the therapist or doctor) says, just go out and do or buy this, it may seem like a small thing to them, in reality, small things pile up quickly.

Maddy finished her first week of therapy. She had two days of PT and OT both and then a feeding evaluation with her OT. The feeding therapy eval was informative and overwhelming at the same time. We learned that they think Maddy is still refluxing, when she burbs, she is swallowing after, which may be causing her aversion to some foods and her sippy cup. We were advised to call her pediatrician to follow-up on it and observe for signs and symptoms. They also said since Maddy is developmentally at a 6-8 month level, her readiness for eating will correlate with that. They said she may not be ready for more solid foods or meats yet. They are having us do a 3 day food journal to keep track of what and how much she is eating. They would also like us to come for feeding therapy twice a week with out OT, which adds another day of therapy to our schedule (we are up to 3 days a week now, plus a home visit from the special education therapist once a week).

PT and OT are going well, although Maddy is exhausted at the end of the days she has therapy. Dallas has been the one to meet with them so far, but says he really enjoys going and finds it very helpful. It seems that as the week goes on, Dallas keeps saying to me "oh yeah, that's another thing they want us to work on", I think my brain is overloaded. In a nutshell, we are working on increasing the muscle tone in Maddy's arms and legs, working on peek and boo type toys and games (to help teach Maddy that things still exist when she can't see them), using two hands to play and engaging both hands when playing, and tracking objects with her eyes.

They also mentioned getting Maddy a pair of shorts that are spandex type material, with the legs attached to eachother. This helps keep Maddy's thighs together. They said she is having a hard time keeping them together due to low muscle tone, and this will help with that.

So, after learning a lot this week, and quickly realizing we needed a system to organize all of this, we came up with a solution. First off, Dallas asked the therapist to write down a list of the main goals they would like us to focus on. We have a large dry erase board mounted in Maddy's bedroom which we started writing all of her therapy goals on. It also helps Dallas and I communicate with each other since we rarely see eachother (except when one of us is sleeping) during the week. We also plan to use our ipad to record short videos for each other of what the new exercises look like.

The good news is, I know this is going to help her, I can see the difference when we work with her, so it makes it all worth it in the end.